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Stop Telling Athletes to “Calm Down”: What to Say Instead Jan 30, 2026

“Calm down.”

It’s one of the most common phrases said to athletes — and one of the most misunderstood.

While it’s usually said with good intentions, many athletes don’t experience it as calming at all. Instead, they hear:

  • “You’re overreacting”

  • “You shouldn’t feel this way”

  • “You’re d

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The Game Isn’t About Perfection: Teaching Softball Players How to Bounce Back Jan 16, 2026

Every softball player will strike out.
Every pitcher will give up a hit.
Every fielder will make an error.

That’s not pessimism—it’s reality.

Softball is a game of failure. The sooner athletes accept that, the faster they grow.

The problem isn’t failure itself.
The problem is what happens after f...

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Unlocking Success on the Softball Field: The Power of Body Language Sep 24, 2024

Softball pitching isn't just about the physical act of throwing a ball. It's about communication, confidence, and connection—elements that are heavily influenced by our body language. Did you know that only 7% of communication is verbal? The rest is conveyed through our body language.

Here are 7 es...

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