DR3 Fastpitch Blog

“Calm down.”

It’s one of the most common phrases said to athletes — and one of the most misunderstood.

While it’s usually said with good intentions, many athletes don’t experience it as calming at all. Instead, they hear:

• “You’re overreacting”

• “You shouldn’t feel this way”

• “You’re d

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One of the most common things I see when athletes struggle under pressure isn’t a mechanical issue.

It’s a mental one.

Specifically, athletes don’t understand the difference between a routine and a reset — and that confusion leads to spirals on game day.

Let’s clear that up.

What a Routine Actua...

Sometimes, the fix isn’t physical—it’s visual.

Here’s a fast (and often surprising) way to help your daughter throw more strikes today:

Adjust her eye level.

Yep. It’s that simple.

If she’s consistently throwing high?
👉 Have her aim lower.

If she’s constantly spiking pitches in the dirt?
👉 Tell...

There’s a moment every athlete hits eventually:

You hang up your cleats.
You take off the jersey.
You realize… this chapter is over.

And no one really prepares you for it.

Because we’re taught to chase stats, scholarships, and starting spots—but we’re not taught what to do when it all ends. Wh...

This one might ruffle some feathers, but I’m saying it anyway:

Stop trying to be the favorite.

I know the pull. I’ve felt it, too. The need to be the coach’s go-to. The desire to be the “easy” player, the one who never causes waves. I used to chase it hard—approval, praise, being liked. And for...

As a softball player, you know that success at the plate requires more than just raw talent—it demands determination, focus, and the ability to overcome obstacles. If you've ever felt stuck in a hitting rut, unable to capitalize on your potential, it's time to identify what's holding you back and ta...

In the fast-paced world of softball defense, every split-second decision matters. Yet, despite your best intentions, you might find yourself hesitating on the field, unable to execute your defensive game plan effectively. Let's explore some common obstacles to fielding excellence and strategies for ...

Many athletes, especially softball pitchers, can relate to being in the spotlight, where every move is critical and the pressure is high. This feeling is not unlike the struggle of overcoming shyness, where every social interaction feels like a judgment. This blog explores how the journey from shyne...

In the game of softball, as in the workplace, there are times when you encounter challenging situations with teammates or colleagues. It's crucial to approach these scenarios with a level head and a resolution strategy.

Understanding the Dynamics

Similar to the dynamics within a softball team, wor...

Hey Softball Parents!

Game days are the culmination of all the hard work and dedication your young athlete has put into their training. As they gear up to take the field, it's essential to ensure they're mentally and physically prepared for the challenges ahead. Here are some tips to help them shin...