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What Coach Pinky Called About: 6 Youth Softball Myths Parents Hear athlete development confidence mental game parent education Aug 07, 2026

What Coach Pinky Called About

If you’ve been around youth softball long enough…
You’ve probably heard some version of this:

“She needs to throw 65 by 12.”
“You better be playing year-round or she’ll fall behind.”
“You need to fix that mechanic right now.”
“She’s in a slump—this is a big problem.”
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Youth Softball Advice: The Chaos You Hear vs. the Coach You Need athlete development confidence leadership parent education Jul 31, 2026

The Chaos You Hear vs. The Coach You Need

If you’ve been around youth softball for any amount of time…
You’ve heard it.

The sideline conversations.
The tournament chatter.
The “advice” that sounds confident… but doesn’t quite sit right.

It’s loud.
It’s emotional.
And honestly—it can get confusing...

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Softball Is a Privilege, Not an Entitlement athlete development leadership mental toughness parent education May 14, 2026

One of the hardest conversations I have with softball players and parents has nothing to do with mechanics.

It’s not about spin.
It’s not about velocity.
It’s not even about talent.

It’s about privilege.

And I think that word makes people uncomfortable sometimes because they immediately hea

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How Softball Pitchers Build Confidence and Believe in Themselves athlete development confidence mental game mental toughness Apr 15, 2026

Pitchers, let’s talk about something that’s just as important as mechanics, drills, or learning a new pitch.

Your inner voice.

Pitching is one of the toughest jobs on the softball field. You’re in the circle, the ball is in your hand, and a lot of eyes are on you. Some days everything clicks. Ot

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Softball Season Goals: How Pitchers Gain Clarity Instead of Chasing Perfection athlete development goal setting mental game parent education Apr 08, 2026

There’s a point in every season where things start to feel a little louder.

The games have started.
The reps are piling up.
The results start showing up on scoreboards, stat sheets, and in conversations after practice.

And with that comes the quiet pressure to fix things.

Fix mechanics.
Fix confi...

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Softball Pitching Mindset: Why Embracing the Grind Builds Better Pitchers athlete development confidence mental game mental toughness Apr 08, 2026

I still remember the first time I stepped onto the mound and thought, I’ve got this.

Spoiler alert: I didn’t.

I walked batters.
I hit batters.
And more times than I can count, it felt like my body was working against me instead of for me.

I loved pitching… but man, it was frustrating.

Some days ...

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27 Life Lessons Softball Teaches Young Athletes athlete development confidence leadership parent education Apr 01, 2026

Earlier this year I turned 27, and it made me pause and reflect on everything this game has taught me.

Softball has been part of my life for as long as I can remember. When I think back to the younger version of myself stepping into the circle for the first time, I smile a little.

She had no idea ...

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How Athletes Grow athlete development leadership mental toughness parent education Mar 31, 2026

Not every athlete will be a starter — but every athlete deserves support, development, and belief. 

One of the hardest lessons for athletes and parents alike is understanding that growth doesn’t always look like playing time. Development continues even when an athlete isn’t on the field, and some o...

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Softball Pitcher Mindset: Meet Yourself Where You Are and Keep Growing athlete development confidence mental game mental toughness Mar 25, 2026

One of the hardest parts of becoming a pitcher isn’t learning mechanics.

It’s learning patience.

When we first fall in love with pitching, it’s easy to imagine success happening quickly. We picture ourselves throwing harder, mastering new pitches, and dominating in the circle.

But pitching doesn’...

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Compete With Joy: Every Pitcher's Mindset for Tryouts athlete development confidence mental game mental toughness Mar 18, 2026

Tryouts have a way of turning the volume up on everything.

The nerves get louder.
The thoughts start racing.
And suddenly every pitch feels like a test.

It can start to feel like every throw is being graded. Every miss feels like a mistake you can’t afford. Every moment starts to feel like proof o...

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