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I Don’t Miss the Uniform—I Miss the Person I Was in It athlete development confidence leadership mental game Apr 28, 2025

People always ask me,

“Do you miss playing?”

The short answer is yes.

But not for the reasons most assume. I don’t miss the early lifts or conditioning tests. I don’t miss the pressure or the ice baths. And honestly? I don’t even miss game day as much as you’d think.

What I do miss is her—the ve...

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The Email That Changed Everything: A Lesson in Purpose and Perseverance athlete development confidence leadership mental toughness Apr 25, 2025

It came at 11:03 PM.

I was lying in bed, exhausted from a long lesson day, halfway debating whether to even check my email. And there it was: a message from a player I hadn’t heard from in over a year.

“Coach D… I just wanted to say thank you. I almost quit softball this summer. I was miserable. B...

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The Day I Let a 12U Pitcher Hit—and She Hit a Bomb athlete development confidence leadership parent education Apr 23, 2025

 

This story still gives me chills.

I was running a 12U game with one of my lesson girls on the mound. She was new to pitching and just finding her confidence. But she had crazy energy, a big smile, and always begged to hit.

Her coach came up before the game:

“We’re thinking of just letting her ...

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That Time I Hit a Walk-Off (Seriously) athlete development confidence leadership mental game Apr 21, 2025

 

Okay, confession time.

Yes—I became a “P.O.”

Yes—I had a complicated relationship with hitting in college.

But also? I once hit a walk-off.

It was my junior year, and I hadn’t swung a bat in months. We were down a player due to illness, so my coach asked if I could just stand in to get throug...

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But Coach, I Can Play First! athlete development confidence mental game performance training Apr 18, 2025

 

I remember it like it was yesterday.

We were mid-tournament. Our first baseman rolled her ankle bad on a rundown. Everyone’s panicking.

And I go, “Hey Coach—I can play first.”

Blank stare.

“No, you’re a pitcher. You’re not even warmed up for that.”

The crazy part? I was ready. I grew up play...

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From 14-Year-Old Dreamer to D1 No-Hitter. athlete development confidence mental toughness success stories Apr 11, 2025

@meganncclare didn’t start pitching until she was 14 years old. Most would say that’s “late.” But what they don’t see is the heart, the work, and the resilience she’s poured in since day one.

 

I’ve had the privilege of working with Megan since she was a freshman in high school — and watching her ...

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The Shortstop Leading the Softball Team to Success athlete development confidence leadership team culture Mar 04, 2025

Being a leader is no easy task, especially when you inherit a team with diverse strengths and personalities. In softball, the shortstop often embodies the qualities of a good leader, guiding the team toward victory. Let's explore why shortstops make excellent leaders on the diamond.

Understanding T...

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Stepping Up to the Plate: Overcoming Softball Hitting Challenges athlete development confidence hitting mental game Feb 25, 2025

As a softball player, you know that success at the plate requires more than just raw talent—it demands determination, focus, and the ability to overcome obstacles. If you've ever felt stuck in a hitting rut, unable to capitalize on your potential, it's time to identify what's holding you back and ta...

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Fielding Excellence: Overcoming Challenges in Softball Defense athlete development confidence defense fielding Feb 11, 2025

In the fast-paced world of softball defense, every split-second decision matters. Yet, despite your best intentions, you might find yourself hesitating on the field, unable to execute your defensive game plan effectively. Let's explore some common obstacles to fielding excellence and strategies for ...

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Breaking Through the Barrier: Overcoming Obstacles in Softball Hitting athlete development confidence hitting mental game Jan 28, 2025

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a batting slump, full of great hitting ideas but struggling to put them into action? You're not alone. Just like in any aspect of life, softball players encounter barriers that hinder their progress at the plate. Let's dive into what might be stopping you and ho...

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