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Why Your Daughter’s Game-Day Nerves Are Actually a Good Thing Jan 22, 2026

If your daughter gets nervous before games, let me start by saying this clearly:

That does not mean she’s weak.
That does not mean she’s unprepared.
And it definitely does not mean something is wrong with her.

Pressure shows up because athletes care.

And caring is a good thing.

One of the biggest ...

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Why Pitchers Need Support and Accountability at Home Dec 28, 2025

Why Pitchers Need Support and Accountability at Home

Pitching should never feel lonely.

The pitchers who grow the most don’t do it alone — they have structure, accountability, and people who believe in them on the hard days.

When parents understand mechanics, arm care, practice structure, and the...

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Why So Many Young Players Want to Pitch or Catch Dec 21, 2025

Pitcher and catcher are often called the power positions — and for good reason.

Pitchers control the pace, speed, and movement of the game. Catchers manage the defense, call pitches, and lead communication. These roles naturally attract young athletes who want responsibility, challenge, and leaders...

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The Myth of ‘More’: Why Mastery Beats Quantity Every Time Jul 07, 2025

In today’s game, it’s tempting to chase the next pitch, the next milestone, the next shiny number.

But Coach D is here to say it loud:

More pitches doesn’t make you elite. Better command does.

Adding too fast can backfire—leading to injury, frustration, and burnout. Rushing mastery just for t...

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You’re Not Behind—You’re Just Not Rushing Jul 01, 2025

It’s easy to scroll through social media, see everyone announcing new pitches and velocity PRs, and feel like your daughter is falling behind.

But here’s the truth: faster isn’t always better.

Coach D knows it firsthand—after seven injuries in seven years, all from pushing too hard, too soon. The ...

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Softball Parents—Let’s Add Flag Football to Her Arsenal Jun 13, 2025

Every season I see it—girls with cannon arms, quick instincts, and the ability to perform under pressure.

Now picture those same athletes using that skill set on the flag football field. The crossover is incredible. Quarterback footwork mirrors pitcher mechanics. Route running sharpens focus and ag...

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When Winning Isn’t Everything Jun 01, 2025

We all want to win. But if we’re not careful, we’ll raise a generation of players who think winning justifies bad behavior.

Stealing signs, heckling the other team, celebrating errors—none of this makes a team “competitive.” It just makes them unpleasant. Real competitiveness means playing hard, st...

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Breaking Through Inertia: 5 Tips to Reignite Your Passion for Softball Pitching Oct 08, 2024

Feeling stuck in a pitching rut? It happens to the best of us. Whether it's a lack of motivation, stagnant progress, or simply feeling uninspired, inertia can hinder your performance on the softball field. But fear not, here are 5 tips to help you break through inertia and reignite your passion for ...

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Unlocking Success on the Softball Field: The Power of Body Language Sep 24, 2024

Softball pitching isn't just about the physical act of throwing a ball. It's about communication, confidence, and connection—elements that are heavily influenced by our body language. Did you know that only 7% of communication is verbal? The rest is conveyed through our body language.

Here are 7 es...

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5 Tips to Reignite Your Softball Pitching Passion Jun 18, 2024

Are you feeling stuck in your softball pitching journey? Overcome inertia with these 5 actionable tips to reignite your passion and propel your game forward.

Update Your Skills: Just like updating your resume, review your pitching skills. Are you proud of your recent accomplishments on the mound? I...

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