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What I See as a Coach That Parents Don’t Always Catch Jul 28, 2025

As a coach, I can teach your daughter how to spin the ball.

How to sequence pitches.

How to hit her spots.

But what I can’t do in a 60-minute lesson… is teach her to believe she belongs on that mound.

That’s why I created the Diamond Strong Mindset Academy.

Because the girls who stand out aren’...

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She Didn’t Have Her Best Season—But She Grew Anyway Jul 25, 2025

Not every season is a highlight reel.

Sometimes, it’s slumps. Injuries. Benching. Bad hops. Hard lessons.

But growth? That still happened.

Even if her stats don’t show it, her character does.

She handled adversity.

She stuck with it when it was easier to quit.

She showed grace in tough moments...

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For the Girl Who’s Smiling… But Struggling Jul 22, 2025

There’s a girl on your team right now who looks fine.

She laughs. She cheers. She says she’s ā€œgood.ā€

But inside?

She’s battling nerves.

She’s overthinking every mistake.

She’s losing sleep before games… and no one knows.

I’ve worked with so many girls like this—they hide it well, until the pre...

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She Played Through the Pain—But You Saw the Whole Picture Jul 19, 2025

Ā Spring season was long.

Games. School. Travel. Stress.

She showed up, pitched through it, and smiled through the soreness.

But you saw it—the winces after innings. The limp the next morning. The frustration when her body didn’t move the way she needed it to.

Maybe it was an injury.

Maybe it wa...

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She Was Sore on Monday… and Anxious by Friday Jul 16, 2025

One of my DR3 moms messaged me after her daughter’s first month of high school ball. She said:

ā€œCoach D, she’s sore every Monday, stiff every Thursday, and nervous every Friday because she never feels ready to compete.ā€

This isn’t just about soreness—it’s about confidence.

And when a pitcher does...

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The 3 Phases of a Powerful Pitch Jul 13, 2025

If your daughter wants to throw harder, with better control — this is what needs to click:

1. Wind-Up

  • Leg lift

  • Hip separation

  • Shoulder rotation
    This phase sets the tone for rhythm and momentum.

2. Stride

  • Transfers energy from back leg to front

  • Builds power from the grou

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Why Her Arm Isn’t the Problem Jul 10, 2025

I see it all the time…

Parents bring their daughters to me and say,
"She just can't throw hard"
or
"Her release is off."

But here's what I’ve learned after years of coaching pitchers:

Pitching isn’t just about the arm.
It’s about theĀ entire body working in sync.

And when ONE part of the chain breaks...

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The Myth of ā€˜More’: Why Mastery Beats Quantity Every Time Jul 07, 2025

In today’s game, it’s tempting to chase the next pitch, the next milestone, the next shiny number.

But Coach D is here to say it loud:

More pitches doesn’t make you elite. Better command does.

Adding too fast can backfire—leading to injury, frustration, and burnout. Rushing mastery just for t...

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What a Perfect Game Really Means—And Why It’s So Rare Jul 04, 2025

Twenty-one batters. Twenty-one outs. No hits. No walks. No errors. No one reaches base.

A perfect game.

It’s one of the rarest accomplishments in sports—for a reason. Perfection leaves no margin for error. It demands flawless execution, focus, and nerves of steel.

But here’s the part we often for...

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You’re Not Behind—You’re Just Not Rushing Jul 01, 2025

It’s easy to scroll through social media, see everyone announcing new pitches and velocity PRs, and feel like your daughter is falling behind.

But here’s the truth: faster isn’t always better.

Coach D knows it firsthand—after seven injuries in seven years, all from pushing too hard, too soon. The ...

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